Remembering Oliver

By Georgia & Alex

In memory of Oli, please donate to the Newborn Intensive Care Unit

No parent should have to write this intro... and you certainly never think it'll be you, until it is.

Alex and my second child, a cracking 3.9kg boy named Oliver, was born on the 8th November last year. He was much longed for, and I had the most perfect, healthy and happy pregnancy. The biggest risk we thought we had was not making it to the hospital in time, as Cleo was born so quickly.

So we got there early, but in the first hour of labour, I had an unexpected and rare placental abruption and Oli didn't receive oxygen for a very long time. No extra risk factors and no symptoms, just crappy bad luck. After 6 days in the Newborn Intensive Care Unit of The Royal, he passed away in our arms from his injury.

He was everything we hoped for - such a handsome, brave and sweet little guy. We are heartbroken. But we're also resilient and in time, we know we will be OK.

We also know we are lucky in so many ways... being at the hospital meant that I wasn't in more danger, and we were able to get to know Oli for a short time. Whilst the outcome was horrific, we were lucky that he was cared for by a team of extraordinary doctors and nurses. They gave Oliver a chance, then they checked, monitored and responded to him every minute of those six days. It takes a very special person to work in the NICU - so talented, but also so kind. We had comfort knowing those people were with Oli, when inevitably we had to leave each night.

We are also lucky to have the support of you, our friends and family. It has been overwhelming to understand how wide this circle stretches around us and everyone who has heard Oliver's story has asked us how they can help. This is how...

Let's raise money in Oli's name to help the talented and kind doctors and nurses in the NICU. It's a public hospital, so they desperately need private donations to buy life saving equipment, like the ventilator that kept Oli alive. And they also need things as seemingly insignificant as comfortable chairs for parents to sit on all day. If you can believe it, they're scarce in a public hospital where funding is so low.

I'd like to think that because of Oliver, those doctors and nurses can do all that they can, with the very best equipment available. And maybe another little baby might go home. 

So please give what you can and pass on to anyone who might be able to help. Then when you look up at the stars tonight, give a little cheer to the brightest one up there - that's our little Oli, our lucky star.

xx Georgia, Alex and Cleo

Thank you to my Supporters

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Essence Project Management

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Social Soup

Hi Georgia, Alex and Cleo We'd love to support you and this great cause. You are amazing organising this and supporting others. The stars always shine more brightly when the night is at its darkest. We will always look for your little bright star shining back in the dark night. All our love to your beautiful brave family.

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David And Carol Brooker

Remembering Oliver forever. We love you. Carol and David

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Janet & Simon

This is wonderful - to remember Oli in a really meaningful way. And for us to say how impressed and proud we are at the way you have both endured this horrendous experience and supported each other. Thank goodness for Cleo who is an absolute joy. We love you three and Oli, your lucky star (ours too).

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Ben, Renee, Reed And Eden.

Love from Uncle Ben, Aunt Renee and cousins Reed and Eden.

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With Love From The Zerna Girls Xxx

Words cannot express how much we love and support you all. Love the Zerna Girls and all of your family xxx (Barb, Beth, Megan, Bron, Katie, Robyn, Jill, Suzanne, Roxanne, Keryn, Julie, Jess and Georgia)

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Sophie Angus

Primmy n I love you.

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Clive And Murph

Georgia and Alex, sending all our love to you and your family. This is a wonderful thing you are doing. Your beautiful boy will be remembered always.

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Sarah & James

Thinking of you all and sending our love xx

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Jo Angus And Emily Ross

Our love and thoughts are with the three of you. Xx

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Bec & Al Crawford

We are thinking of you both. Such a lovely idea to set up this fundraiser. You guys are amazing xx

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Rachael Thomas

Sending all our love and strength to you all. Rachael, Justin and James xxx

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Clare Kerlin

G, Al, and Cleo you are always in our thoughts, we love you guys all the way from Ireland and back again. Oli is part of our ‘PO’ gang now and always. We’re so sorry this happened to you guys and so proud to support you here. We continue to be in awe of your courage and strength. Sending the warmest virtual hugs until we see you in March. Clare, James, and Stevie. Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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Shaun & Dianne

Hi Georgia & Alex. Our thoughts are with you.

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Greg Incoll

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Kate, Rob, Alfie And Isla Xx

Love you guys xxx

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Prudence Rice

Darling Oli

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Kristy, Johnny & Flynn

You are in our thoughts and hearts always xx

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Liz And Gav

Georgia and Alex, you are amazing. Our thoughts are with you xo

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The Chapman Family

Sending you all lots of love x

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Turen-ott And Turen Family

For beautiful Oliver. For the wonderful team in the NICU. With all our love, Elisha, Dan, Zachary, Julie & Harold.

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Cam And Jan Angus

Love to Georgia, Alex and Cleo.

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Shaun Siva

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Jack S

To a wonderful cause. For a beautiful family. In honour of Oli. All my love. Jack.

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The Airth Family

Thank you for sharing Oli’s story. He will forever be in all our hearts. Xx

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My Stepping Stones Rose Bay

Dearest Alex and Georgia, We are in such awe with the ongoing strength and resilience you show on a daily basis. Oli's spirit will forever be in the MSS community and we are happy to contribute towards this organisation. Love your MSS Family.

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Lachy And Maria Angus

Hi Georgia, so sorry for your loss of young Oli. We can’t imagine the pain you guys have been through but our thoughts have been with you. We’d love to support this cause. Love Lachy and Maria Angus

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Tim, Liz, Charlie And Tom

You guys are so brave and this is such a great cause. Sending lots of love x

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Josh Ferrett

Dear Georgia, Alex and Cleo, sending our strength and love to you all. Your resilience is inspirational. Always Josh and Andrea

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Mario Dreosti

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Anca Saves The Day

To Alex and Georgia, The starry night has forever changed for me as I feel the spirit of Oli around. I feel it shines brighter. I feel blessed to have your beautiful daughter Cleo shine so brightly around me and remind me to stop and love every moment in every day. Your strength as a family leaves me in awe and admiration. So much love to you all. Lots of love, Miss Anca xx

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Hye Jin Kim

Such a lovely cause. Sending you all our love. Ben, Hye-Jin, Chloe and Callum.

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Olivia And Piran Trethewey

We’re so utterly heartbroken for you all, and can’t imagine going through this, you sound like you’ve been the bravest and strongest parents imaginable, and Oli was surrounded by nothing but love. What a beautiful way to remember him always. We will make sure we do too xxx

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Siobhan Petri

All my love go your whole family. You’re strength is incredible Oli will always be remembered in the hearts of all those who love you. Xx

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Soares Family

Your amazing family of four have touched our hearts forever X

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Cat Adams

Xxx

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Noelle O'dwyer

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The Zerna Girls

A little more for Oli xx

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Paul Raymond

Dearest Alex, Georgia and Cleo, A wonderful way to leave a legacy for beautiful Oliver. You are all in our thoughts. Sending you all our love, your friends from over the pond. Paul, Anna and Ayla.xxx

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Rosy Gerlach

Ohhh Georgia I was devastated for you when I heard the horrible news from Ol and Amber! No words can make it better but I was happy to read (from your beautiful words) that you have great support around you. I am sure Oliver will be yours', Alex and Cleo's guardian angel and watch over you all. Sending love and strength xx

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Kenny Lyons

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